MIDNIGHT!/ Saturday, March 13, 2010
This appeared in the newspapers Life! section today..
"Do not expect every man to be loyal. Maybe only 1 out of 1000 will be. You cannot stop a man from doing what he wants when he travels out of Singapore. Put a box of condoms in his suitcase. Be safe. You cannot beat it, so follow it. If you keep on being jealous, you will spoil the relationship."
What the heck! The issue isn't even about being jealous. Being in marriage is about being faithful to one another. It's a form of affirmation of the love between both parties. Whatever temptations a man faces, perhaps because of the high level of testosterones found in males, they should be able to resist/control them.
I believe there are actually alot more of such infidelity cases in Singapore, just that they are not as publicised as the jack neo saga. And it's really a sad situation. Perhaps those wives prefer to close one eye, because of their children or because they're already too used to having their husbands by their side. I beg to differ though. It's just WRONG. One shouldn't just do nothing and accept such a situation. It will be tough standing up to them, after years of trust and dependence on the other party, but what needs to be done should be done. The wife is the victim here.
Heck, even my mom thinks it's the young model's fault for seducing jack neo. -.- It takes 2 hands to clap though. Jack Neo himself knows that he's married, so he should know where to draw the line.
And that's why, it's easy to lose faith in guys. That said, I'm not for lesbianism though.Heb 13:4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
Past. Present. Future
3/13/2010 09:00:00 PM <3
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